Why is making decisions so challenging? Do you find yourself agonizing over small decisions several times a day? From choosing what to wear or deciding on a lunch menu to making life-changing choices, we constantly face moments of decision. However, the pressure to make the “perfect choice” can be overwhelming, as if everything will fall apart if we don’t make the best decision. Let’s explore how to escape this trap of perfectionism.
1. Don’t Fall Into the Perfectionism Trap
Have you ever heard the phrase by the French philosopher Voltaire, “Perfect is the enemy of good”? This statement highlights how the pursuit of perfection places a heavy burden on us. The truth is, “perfection” is an illusion, yet we chase it, getting caught in endless dilemmas. This tendency is especially pronounced when making significant decisions like quitting a job or changing careers. We often forget that “perfect decisions” don’t exist.
What truly matters is not the perfection of the decision but how we accept and act upon the decisions we make. So rather than striving for perfection, try making a “good enough” decision and learn and grow from the experience. That’s the way to a more fulfilling life.
2. Clarify Your Priorities
Another reason we struggle with decisions is that we try to consider too many factors at once. Trying to satisfy every condition is, in fact, nearly impossible—like winning the lottery. Therefore, identify the one criterion that is most important to you. This must be a non-negotiable standard. Make your decision based on this priority without compromising it. By clarifying your priorities, the decision-making process will become much easier.
3. The Real Journey Begins After the Decision
Making a decision is not the end; it’s actually the beginning of the real story. Even with the same decision, the outcomes can vary significantly depending on how you act afterward. So instead of obsessing over making the perfect decision, focus on actions that will make your decision the best it can be. In the end, how you act after the decision is far more important than the decision itself.
4. Regret Is Inevitable but a Growth Opportunity
The biggest reason we delay decisions is the fear of regret. However, regret is inevitable, no matter what choice you make. Instead of avoiding regret, think about what you can learn from it. Accept regret as an opportunity for growth, and the decision-making process will become a learning experience rather than a source of fear.
Conclusion: Supporting Your Decision-Making
Are you struggling with a decision? Try applying the three methods discussed in this article. Let go of the burden of needing to make the perfect decision, and approach your choices with a lighter heart. This small shift can have a significant positive impact on your life. Whatever decision you make, I sincerely wish that your actions afterward will lead to the best possible outcome.