People sometimes live by asserting their pride. Sometimes it’s part of self-esteem, other times it’s a defense mechanism. However, not all pride benefits us. Unnecessary pride can harm our lives and relationships. Today, we’ll talk about when to let go of your pride. Read on and take this opportunity to reflect on yourself.
1. When being stubborn
We often assert our pride when we think we are right, and others are wrong. But the world is not that simple. Most situations are not black and white. Being stubborn makes our thoughts and attitudes more rigid, which doesn’t help us at all. The more stubborn we are, the more pain we experience.
It’s not about giving up stubbornness. It’s about considering if we are approaching the situation constructively and if our actions are based on the right grounds. Sometimes letting go of stubbornness can benefit everyone.
2. When you need help
When you need help, asserting your pride can prevent you from getting the help you need. Behavioral expert Gregg Levoy describes this as “arrogance.” We all live by relying on each other. Asking for help is not shameful.
Blindly insisting on doing everything alone hinders our growth and happiness.
3. When you don’t express your true feelings
Some people shut themselves off instead of expressing their feelings when someone says something hurtful. Due to pride, they may avoid acknowledging their true feelings or act aggressively. By expressing true feelings, we can accept our true selves.
4. When hiding behind a mask to cover vulnerability
Sometimes we wear masks to hide our insecurities. If we can’t show our true selves because of pride, we can’t form genuine relationships. Maintaining authenticity is important.
5. When an important relationship is at risk
When pride escalates an argument with someone important, we must ask ourselves. Is it worth sacrificing this relationship? Pride can sometimes destroy relationships. Letting go of pride is necessary to preserve valuable relationships.
6. When hurting others results in greater self-sacrifice
Asserting pride out of malice and anger worsens situations. If pride makes us overreact or stubborn, the result will not be good. We must build inner strength.
7. When it hinders personal growth
If pride blocks our progress, it’s a problem. When arrogance rises, we must manage our pride. This is why self-reflection is important.
Conclusion
Letting go of pride is not easy. But through it, we can create better lives and relationships. Let go of pride and live accepting your true self.